caught between 2 acquaintances

[jawnbc]

Perhaps I shouldn’t care. Or bother. But I do.

Someone casually informs me that they’ll be crashing with another nodding acquaintance in the not-too-distant future. Person #1 has always struck me as a good person. Person #2, I have found, has serious issues, including stalking and other obsessive-like behaviours.

I don’t know if #1 knows this about #2. I started to write an email about it, but no matter how I worded it.......waaaah!

“Hey,

I hear you’re gonna stay with #2 in a few weeks. How well do you know each other? Because . . .”

1. If #1 is in the dark, I could save him much heart-ache and drama
2. if #1 knows this but is gonna give #2 the benefit of the doubt, could be OK
3. If they’re already good mates, I look like a meddling asshole.

Help? Please?

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[jawnbc]

only contact is email or chat

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[beverly-sutphin.livejournal.com]

I'd still tell #1. I'd use chat. I'd explain that I felt it was a bit awkward and I'd explain my motivations in sharing the information.
Then, I'd tell #1 exactly what I knew of #2 (good bad and ugly) and let them decide from there.

But that's just me.

Speaking of chat. I tried to add you to msn, but dunno if it was effective. I have problems with their service all the time. If/when you're around, msg me on msn (brrdy@hotmail.com -- I never check the mail there, it's for msn only).