caught between 2 acquaintances

[jawnbc]

Perhaps I shouldn’t care. Or bother. But I do.

Someone casually informs me that they’ll be crashing with another nodding acquaintance in the not-too-distant future. Person #1 has always struck me as a good person. Person #2, I have found, has serious issues, including stalking and other obsessive-like behaviours.

I don’t know if #1 knows this about #2. I started to write an email about it, but no matter how I worded it.......waaaah!

“Hey,

I hear you’re gonna stay with #2 in a few weeks. How well do you know each other? Because . . .”

1. If #1 is in the dark, I could save him much heart-ache and drama
2. if #1 knows this but is gonna give #2 the benefit of the doubt, could be OK
3. If they’re already good mates, I look like a meddling asshole.

Help? Please?

Comments

[mathan.livejournal.com]

You let person #1 talk to #2's ex who he knows quite well, who would say something. And then you let #1 learn for themselves that #2 is actually a down to earth decent guy who, yes, has had issues in the past and has actually come a long way in dealing with them.

*GRIN* ;)