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Today was a first: [livejournal.com profile] querrelle went, I stayed.

I very much prefer it the other way--or, better yet, we go together.

Ouais, ouais it’s only a week. And I’m not very interested in a few quality days in Hong Kong right now (the Precious in this instance is holiday/leave/vacation time, and I ain’t wasting it on the dulcet sounds of Cantonese). So I would’n’t have arranged things any other way. I’m glad he’s revisiting old haunts (he lived in Hong Kong for nearly 3 years, including the handback to China in ‘97. In fact, our Mr. [livejournal.com profile] querrelle hasn’t set foot off of Australia since he emigrated 2.5 years ago.

Wow, I can’t imagine not travelling interationally for 2 years. Even Canada.

We did all the important things. Lots of bangin’ to even out over the 6 nights apart. (our usual) Good communication about life, the universe and everything. Food. Sleep. Buckets of affection. Then it was off to the airport, a relatively painless check-in--except I was gearing up to fight about his pre-assigned seat being taken away (20k to 26b). Then I realized 20K was the baggage allowance--d’oh! Aisle forward, not near bassinettes or ‘loos. I take care of my own, yo.

Then a trip to the outside Observation Deck in the International Terminal @ SYD--very much recommended, weather permitting. We snuggled, chatted, had a pash or 5. Then we walked to Passport Control and he was through. I grabbed the train to the City (we exchanged a couple of SMS en route), to recharge my mobile, poke my nose in a few shops (I seek powdered, colour-safe bleach. Goddamnit). Picked up a couple of DVDs for $AU each: Once Were Warriors and Sordid Lives. I was talking myself into wandering down Oxford Street, when I realized my heart just wasn’t in it. Bus home, a couple of genuinely morose hours.

But I’m not so good at the pity pot anymore. I grazed on some food, watched some telly, chatted a bit online, decided to take a nice bath. Now I’m still lonely, but it’s countered by feeling toasty and warm. I may even stay up until 23h00.

Or not. He arrives in HKG around 01h00 Sydney time. I told him to call in the morning, but I’ll have the phone nearby regardless. Juste en cas . . .

Date: 2004-09-25 05:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blue-by-you.livejournal.com
I enjoy reading about your life, Jawn. You tell it so well, I feel like I'm there. And you are so passionate and alive. He'll be back to you soon, darling.

Date: 2004-09-25 06:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zhenzhi.livejournal.com
try napisan for the washing, it's great on colours. :-)

Date: 2004-09-25 06:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zhenzhi.livejournal.com
:-D i use it in my front loader. if stuff is really dirty, i put napisan in the prewash and wash.
lolol! the exciting riske world of housewifery. :-D

Date: 2004-09-25 07:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poohbearjim.livejournal.com
I always prefer to be the one traveling rather than staying home - not just because of going somewhere new, but everything involved in the act of traveling keeps your mind occupied and off of the fact of being away from your love. When you're the one staying beind you go back to an empty home and usually don't have much to do except dwell on it.

Arrived safe

Date: 2004-09-25 09:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] querrelle.livejournal.com
12:30 am here, 02:30 Sydney time. Relatively painless journey though some difficulty laying hands on HK$ cash at the airport. It's 4 years since my last visit and I can't remember my ATM PIN number!

Pola's maid was here to greet me as planned, albeit a bit grumpy at being kept up so late. The apartment is mammoth and I haven't explored it yet, but managed to pick up a weak, unencypted wireless signal in my bedroom(yay!)

Missing you lots, but enjoying my little adventure. Feels very strange coming back here - the routine of arriving back at the airport is so familiar that it's like I've just been away for a business trip.

Very warm & sticky here.

Talk to you in the morning :-) Love you, and can't wait to marry you.

Date: 2004-09-25 09:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] alec9.livejournal.com
It's strange to have thought of myself as a self-sufficient and independent person all these years (one who still longs for a certain amount of space in day to day living) and then find myself at a bit of a loss when my wife is gone for a night or two. Who'da thunk that I could be lonely? Okay with it, not feeling dependent, but still preferring the company of that loved one - even if just in the next room.

Your window shopping, grazing, tv, purchases etc. reminded of some of my coping behaviors when set a bit adrift.

Parrallels

Date: 2004-09-26 10:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] perkk.livejournal.com
I went to Sydney back in 2002 to visit my Ex. He was there trying to date a local. Due to some loopholes in the visa process, his visa was good for a year, but he could only spend three months in a row in Australia. So every three months, he had to hop out of the country. Your story reminds me of his stories.

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