you know what?

[jawnbc]

You don’t have to be mean to be not nice. Finally I get it: not a nice person! Not cruel, not wholly self-involved, but lacking consideration, tact, and the possibility that others might have an equally legitimate ethos wholly different to yours.

My bad; should’ve sussed it out years ago

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Maybe they're just words?

[b12x12.livejournal.com]

"Steely Blue eyes with no love in them, Scan The World,
And a humourless smile, With no warmth within, Greets the world
And I, I have got nothing, To offer you
No-no-no-no-no
Just this heart deep and true, Which you say you don't need

"See with your eyes, Touch with your hands, please, Hear through your ears, Know in your soul, please
For haven't you me with you now?
And I love you, I love you, I love you, And I love you, I love you, I love you"

Besides, I guess I'm into fluids. They are more interesting to me than solids. And despite his fluid (gray?) values, it's not like he's a loose cannon. You've got a pretty good idea where his balls will fall. I appreciate consistency - even if it's fluid. Consistency suggests character, which I guess is more important to me than values - less heirarchical.

Re: Maybe they're just words?

[b12x12.livejournal.com]

But then "a foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds" eh? But there's another value in "foolish"ness.